He had a routine for everything. Joseph has Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder.
While standing over his bureau, Joseph says, “I’d have to touch all these corners until it felt right on my hands and sometimes that could be two hours or three hours on just one corner. And I could never end it on the left side because the left side was always bad.”
Drugs didn’t help. So Joseph turned to a behavioral therapist. Psychologist Dr. Elana Zimand, Director of Clinical Services for Virtually Better, says, “Most people when I start doing this with them, don’t really want to come back and see me anymore, because it’s very hard work. But it’s so effective.”
She forces her patients to break their routines. For example, if the obsession is germs, and the compulsion is endless hand washing, Dr. Zimand says, “I might have people touch a toilet seat like this, and then rub their hands together. Sometimes I’ll even have them touch their face.”
Patients learn, in time, their anxiety will diminish. Dr. Zimand says, “Their need to wash immediately will actually go down over time, and it will show them that they can start breaking up that pattern of getting germs and washing immediately. They can tolerate the anxiety of that obsession.”
His therapist taught him to stop touching and counting and repeating. Now, if Joseph doesn’t act on his compulsions, he says, “It bothers me, but I made it into a game…I let it bother me. I’ll be saying it can bother me, it’s not a big deal.”
He worked every day for six months. Today his compulsions are under control. He says, “I don’t do compulsions like count anything. I mean I get the need to but I don’t do it, because I don’t want to do it. I don’t want to waste my time you know.” |