A year ago. 18-year-old Megan Tribble was stopped at a red light.
“And the car behind me came up and hit me really hard,” she says.
She wasn’t injured. but for weeks afterwards.
“I was always afraid someone was going to hit me every time I stopped. And then I had a bad dream that someone hit me.”
In fact, the psychological effects of car accidents may even get worse over time.
According to a British study of 86 children involved in car accidents. 15 percent of kids showed signs of post traumatic stress two weeks after the accident.. the number grew to 25 percent after 3 months!
“Some parents don’t want to, they want the child to quickly get over it. ‘Get over it, it’s o-k, everything’s fine’, because to the parent, or other adults, everything is fine,” says Psychiatrist Kirven Weekley, Ph.D.
Experts say minimizing what a child is feeling – may actually cause the trauma linger, or grow worse!
“Because that will cause the child to try to suppress it even more, rather than sort of bring it out into the open and allow those natural processes. to heal,” says Dr. Weekley.
Instead, she says, parents should encourage the child to talk about their fears.
And let them know, it’s normal.
“That they may dream about it, they may think about it, or they may avoid things that are similar or associated with the trauma,” says Weekley.
Megan and her mom talked openly after the accident.and. after a few weeks. she was less afraid.
Still, she was surprised such a small accident could have such a big effect.
“Really surprised, because I wasn’t hurt or anything. I didn’t think it would be that big a deal. but it really was,” says Tribble. |