Is your child safe at school? Some students say, ‘Not always,’
17-year old Melinda says, “You always see something going on. You know, just like fights between people.”
“And a lot more instances of guns and knives and stuff,” adds Jonathan Sanders, 15
16-year old Rikita says there are stepped up security measures at her school.
“We have metal detectors and random searches in the morning where they search lockers and book bags.”
So far, fewer than 50-schools nationwide have been labeled “persistently dangerous.” One reason is states are allowed to write their own definition and definitions vary. The other reason is schools don’t always report crimes.
“I would assume that schools don’t want to be viewed as unsafe so it might be that purposefully or not, underreporting may happen,” says Dr. Joel Meyers, a school safety specialist
So if your child’s school isn’t labeled dangerous, does that mean it’s safe? Sometimes, he most common kind of violence never gets reported.
“There is a lot of media attention to problems of physical violence- the school shootings and so on get a lot of attention. Bullying happens more pervasively and doesn’t get the same attention and probably contributes a great deal more to feelings of safety in school than does the few occasions of physical violence.”
Experts say to find out how safe your child’s school really is, walk the halls, visit the classrooms, talk to teachers and talk to students.
“I would be looking at what is the school climate like. Is my child unhappy at school? How come? I’d be talking to my child about that to the extent that there’s something related to them feeling safe or unsafe. It’s the perception of safety on the part of the child,” says Dr. Meyers.
And, he says, if safety is an issue, parents can be part of the solution.
“They should be going to the school working with the school people to help overcome those problems rather than blaming the school, nor does it help when the school blames the parents, they need to be working together to create safe environments for the children.”
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