Whether
he’s studying… reading… playing the piano… it’s
hard for 9-year-old Alex to just sit still.
“What I do is like, study a little, and then I get up and
go active a little,” he says.
For fidgety kids like Alex school can be a nightmare…
“The old school view of elementary school and middle school
is that you need to just sit quietly in your seat and pay attention,” says
Psychologist Carol Drummond, Ph.D.
But a new study of 150 grade school children in England found
that for some kids, learning improves when they’re allowed
to fidget.
“Some kids who are overly active actually do a lot better
and can attend better by squeezing a coosh ball or using silly
putty, or being allowed to move around,” says Dr. Drummond.
Why? She says many children have an excess of energy, and trying not to
fidget steals their focus and attention.
A few years ago… Alex kept getting in trouble with his
teacher for not sitting still.
”I kept correlating his fidgetiness, if that’s a word,
with misbehavior,” says
Alex’s mother, Anna Bonaparte, “Because you think ‘well a child
needs to learn to sit still,”
But since then he’s been in classrooms that allow him to
tap his pencil… shake his legs… stand up if he wants…
And he’s gotten almost all A’s.
“as I’ve seem him develop over the past two years,
I’m realizing they don’t really go hand in hand… learning
and sitting still,” says Mrs. Bonaparte.
But while some fidgeting is fine…
“The main point is that they not be distracting to other
children, and interfere with the leaning of other children,” says
Dr. Drummond.
Even Alex has learned that sometimes, like during tests, he needs
to resist the urge to get up… to move around…
“Well, it’s pretty tough but you just have to think
to yourself, ‘I don’t want to get in trouble’ and
you just have to sit there,” he says.
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